I’m judgmental, and not very forgiving,
It’s funny how the most judgmental people are the ones who are most afraid of being judged. I’m definitely one of the most judgmental people I’ve met, not even gonna lie. When I say that i'm judgemental, let me clarify. I not saying a that i really judge people by thier physical appearance like what kind of clothes, jewelry, etc. I tend to pay special attention to what they say and how they act. I used to be really bad making it obvious that I’m trying to feel people out until somebody brought it to my attention. Now I’m super sneaky about it. ;)
I’m also working on being more of a forgiving person. I’m making improvements everyday. Even thought people seem to try and test me everyday. One lesson I’m slowly learning about forgiveness is that byholding a grudge, your not giving anybody a crutch except youself. You can walk around hating this person with all of your energy, but honestly that’s not making any difference in their life, they’re still living their life. So the best thing you can do for yourself is forgiving that person for your sanity’s not theirs.
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